Key Scripture:
“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.” – Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)
Reflection:
You are called to speak the truth in love so that the body of Christ may grow up into maturity. Truth alone can become harsh and cutting if it is used like a weapon. Love alone, if it avoids hard realities, can become flattery that leaves people stuck.
Jesus perfectly embodied both grace and truth. He could confront sin clearly while still drawing sinners near. As His follower, you are invited to imitate this balance, saying what is true without abandoning compassion, and offering compassion without abandoning what is true.
Before you speak, it is wise to ask two questions: “Is what I am about to say true” and “Is my heart positioned in love toward this person”. When the answer to both is yes, your words are more likely to build up rather than tear down. Over time, relationships deepen when people know they can receive both honesty and care from you.
Prayer:
Lord, help me to speak truth in love. Guard me from using truth to harm or using love as an excuse to avoid honesty, and make my words instruments of Your grace. Amen.
Today’s Action Step:
Think of one conversation where you may need to share something honest. Pray for the person, examine your heart, then plan how to speak in a way that is both clear and kind.
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